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How to write a book without going crazy

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  Because the only thing I've learned from talking to the people on this story is that to be a true writer, all you have to do is... write. If you want to be a better writer so you can write better books, you can. Just focus on your book and over time your writing will get better and better. If you get stuck on a particular section and stop moving forward, find another part of the book you enjoy today and write that section instead. The point is to break out of the “Well, if I did some more research…” spiral, and then two years later, your book is still stuck. Your "Good" spiral is bullshit, and procrastination keeps you from finishing your book. (Here you can find a post on how to stop procrastinating). That no one cares what many of us say, or that we can never write a whole book. We persevere when haters tell us to stop, we overcome when our limits crawl like fences to be overcome, and we devour articles that offer advice on how to write better, faster, and smarter. `O...

How daily affirmations can destroy you

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  Probably you've already heard that daily affirmations are important... But do you know why? And better than that, do you know how by doing this simple thing you can become the best version of yourself? Well, first of all, we need to understand that everything around us is energy. Whether you believe or not in God and have a religion, you should understand that your words are powerful and can change your life completely.  A simple test you can do is to say "I can't remember this word" when you forget a message during a conversation. By doing that you are sending a command to your brain and saying " this is not important, you can work on another thing". Maybe that word wasn't worthy to spend your energy on, but when you do it daily it becomes a habit, and then, when you are in a very important situation where you do need to remember that phrase, you can't and blame yourself for that.  Well, I think you could see that is valuable to learn how to use y...

7 effective tips to know if you are walking in Self-love

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  It's not uncommon for people to feel like they don't love themselves. But it is important to know if indeed you do, or if you are fooling yourself and actually just need help. Here are some signs that indicate whether or not you really love yourself. 1)Self-acceptance : The ability to accept your imperfections, faults, and shortcomings as a part of being human. Perhaps the greatest sign of self-love is the recognition that while you may be flawed, others have flaws too. 2)Self-respect and self-esteem : Respect for yourself as an individual, not just the ideal version of yourself; knowing that you can make mistakes, but still be a good person. 3)Caring : Concern for your feelings and needs, trying to understand what is best for you. You want to see your needs met without being emotionally blackmailed or manipulated by anyone. 4)Honesty : To other people and to yourself. Honesty is the foundation of being a good person. You might not be able to completely be honest, however, th...

How to read without missing important points

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  Despite social media, cell phones, and television,  good reading is an important tool for every moment of your life.  That's true, sometimes we skip this point because we think it's too hardworking or takes a lot of time... However, the majority of times we are doing it the wrong way and letting go of our reading passion. We are abandoning the reader who is inside ourselves.  The school does try to teach us how to read, but what we learn is very superficial and gets boring with time.  Have you ever read a book and in the end you felt like you couldn't absorb anything?  This is a common thing. And this is why I am here today. At the end of this post, you will be able to read without those highlighted problems. So, let's go. Below I summarize how to do it more simply and nicely.  1)Discovering you're why 2) Looking for keywords  3) Searching for feedback 4) Reading the summary 5) Thinking first 6) Taking time 7) Giving your opinion #Why  Firs...

Just start

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 Sometimes we might lose, others we will win . The choice is in our hands.  If you wanna know how to stop procrastinating and have your full potential unlocked, read this post. To achieve this goal, we should set up a schedule with our aims and stay with it.  But I know it isn't that easy and we can lose our minds trying to do that. But here goes a video where you can learn how to do the best schedule. The remaining one isn't mine, that's just a nice one I found on Google. And here goes the title of this post: just start . As well said, the best day to start was 10 years ago and the second one is today. So let's do it. Now I invite you to imagine you are two steps away from your dream. Your desired behavior, your new habit, whatever. You are between a hollow space and to wake up early, to save money, lose 20 kilograms  ... And so on. What you need to do is to create a bridge.  You must apply effort for doing that. This will be your schedule. If well done it will...

How to pray like a real Christian

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 Here I'll share with you some beautiful prayers. This will help you who are starting your journey as a Christian or who is trying to make your prayers better.  Daniel's prayer   "3 So I turned to the Lord God and pleaded with him in prayer and petition, in fasting, and in sackcloth and ashes." "4 I prayed to the Lord my God and confessed: “Lord, the great and awesome God,who keeps his covenant of love with those who love him and keep his commandments, 5 we have sinned and done wrong. We have been wicked and have rebelled; we have turned away from your commands and laws. 6 We have not listened to your servants the prophets, who spoke in your name to our kings, our princes and our ancestors, and to all the people of the land." 7 “Lord, you are righteous, but this day we are covered with shame—the people of Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem and all Israel, both near and far, in all the countries where you have scattered us because of our unfaithfulness to...

How to have intimacy with God?

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 Hello, my friends. Today we gonna talk about a thing that is in my heart for a long time.  Some time ago I saw myself in a situation where everything looked meaningless. I was without a goal and a perspective.  I had been a Christian in my childhood, but with time I got lost at this point. And with more time I got lost in everything. My mom usually went to church on Sundays and I had a hard time going with her. However, one day, I don't remember exactly how, but I felt something so powerful. I felt God touching me and since then I couldn't get far away from His presence. But then I came up with a question... Was it possible to have intimacy with God, to be closer to Him?  Then I did what almost everything does and I searched it on google. And I saw the video below.   Attention : This video isn't mine. I am posting it here 'cause I believe it's a great tool and will help you in this journey. Then, I went to church and I heard the church pastor talking about that...