7 effective tips to know if you are walking in Self-love

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 It's not uncommon for people to feel like they don't love themselves. But it is important to know if indeed you do, or if you are fooling yourself and actually just need help. Here are some signs that indicate whether or not you really love yourself.

1)Self-acceptance: The ability to accept your imperfections, faults, and shortcomings as a part of being human. Perhaps the greatest sign of self-love is the recognition that while you may be flawed, others have flaws too.

2)Self-respect and self-esteem: Respect for yourself as an individual, not just the ideal version of yourself; knowing that you can make mistakes, but still be a good person.



3)Caring: Concern for your feelings and needs, trying to understand what is best for you. You want to see your needs met without being emotionally blackmailed or manipulated by anyone.


4)Honesty: To other people and to yourself. Honesty is the foundation of being a good person. You might not be able to completely be honest, however, that doesn't mean you are fooling anyone.




5)Education: A desire to learn and improve yourself, along with an understanding that everyone else can do the same. You want to know what's best for you and to give it a try.

6)Respect for people and their feelings: Allowing others their feelings and listening to their thoughts and perspectives; having the ability to not take things personally.


7) Set boundaries and understand your limits.

When you love yourself you understand your limits, you invest in Self-knowledge, self-care and take attention to your bodies cues. You listen to your voice and don't stay in places you don't like.


I'll put down below a video about this topic. You can follow me on my YouTube channel and see videos about the topics I write down here. 





I hope you have enjoyed it. 🥰

Lemme know if you know your worth. Do you love yourself?

In your opinion what is self-love?

Do you have any tips for us? How can we love ourselves even more everyday?

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