Why you should be unfaithful

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Well, I can imagine you are asking yourself why I said you shouldn't be faithful. I know this sounds crazy, but almost anything is what it seems. And you will understand why I am saying it. 



Let's comprehend the explanation for this question. 

First, we need to discern that we are always making choices. If you go out with your friends instead of reading that book that was on your to-do list, you made a decision. As well, as if you slept 'till you were late to your job and needed to run, you decided for it. I know it sounds cruel, but it's not that bad. 



I guess you've already heard about YouTube, and that this is a wonderful platform to study and watch lectures... Well, I was doing so, and I watched a speech that choked me, and the title was exactly "Why you should be unfaithful". At the first moment, I became curious and clicked on the video. It was a very good decision.

In that lecture, I understand that we are always making choices and among them, is the most important one: who are you choosing to betray? 

I'll give you a moment to think about it. 



Continuing, when we are asked to do something we don't wanna do and that won't make us better and we do it, we are betraying ourselves. When we look at other men - or women-  knowing we are already engaged, we are betraying ourselves, we are being unfaithful with our first choice (to be loyal to that person and to be loyal to our values). 



This was what the man said. He was talking with some people in a lecture and at the end, a beautiful woman talked to him and gave him her number. However, he was married and he needed to make a decision. Whether he decided to talk with her or don't he would be betraying somebody, either he, his wife and his first decision whether that charming woman.  

This is what I am talking about. That fast decision we take hurt us. That breaks our values and our respect for people we love. As when we choose to betray our friend because we wanna act according to other people and we follow their actions, either good or bad... 




That makes us lose the account of our principles.

How can we forget that person who has been by our side and has been always on our side, they helped us during difficult times and supported us no matter what.

We cheated on them with a guy (or a girl) nobody knows, we gave "something" to someone we hardly know or introduce him/her to our friends and family. That's true unfaithfulness to ourselves, to that friend who always stays on our side supporting us...


Why do you cheat on someone?

What are the main reasons to have an affair?

Are you sure you will be happy afterward? Are you sure your spouse will be happy afterward?

How many people after a divorce, an affair said "I wish I never had an affair?


Is it worth it to have one night with someone that became an important event in your life but... If you want to go over again what I say in the title, then maybe one of you has the answers...

How can we be sure we will be happy after an affair?

If your answer is YES but you are not sure if your spouse will say YES or NO, don't do it! If it's not worth your time and emotions, don't do it.

Do you need to leave to have an affair? Is this a must for you to have one night with someone else? How many affairs do people have and don't leave the house more than twice a week?



So, this was what I thought would be useful to you today. I hope you've liked this article.

Remember that we are always opting for something. The decision is in your hands. 

What is yours? Who will you be unfaithful with?



Thank you for reading it.

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